Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Beware: Crazy Navy Wife

And no, it's not me. Settle in, kids, for I have a tale to tell.

Monday afternoon I was coming home from my exile at Starbucks. I pulled into the driveway and got out of the car. I was fumbling with my purse, travel mug, and cell phone (my mom had called as I turned off the car), and trying to get the car door closed when this woman came marching up to me. She stopped at the edge of the driveway and began berating me about how we (or maybe just I) need to drive slower on our street because there are children playing and every single parent on the street is angry with us but no one else "has the balls" to say anything.

I had never seen this woman before in my life. Not once! And there she was, yelling... yes, yelling... at me to be more careful when HER children were playing in the street. As if I'm not already careful because I'm completely paranoid about the children who just sit themselves down IN THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET like it's storytime at the library.

She continued her tirade, harping that she was going to call the base police on us and screaming--it escalated to scuh-REAMing--that if we hit a child "it's OVER for you." I think at this point I snapped my cell phone closed because this was clearly going to take a while. She continued to say that we obviously don't care as much about driving safely because we don't have children of our own, and that we'd been going at least 30 down our street when the speed limit is 15. Then she veered into a personal attack on me, saying that I'm a bad neighbor because I "never come out" of the house.

Throughout this, I did my best to remain calm and tell her that I was sorry if either of us had caused anyone on the street any concern, and that we'd be more vigilant about our speed from now on. (For what it's worth, I did an experiment yesterday, and there's no way that my car could get up to 30 on our little cul-de-sac without busting through the last house's garage door before I hit 20. It's just not long enough to accelerate that much!) I also told her that I'm inside a lot because I work all day doing MY JOB (a very foreign concept to these women who do nothing but pump out ill-behaved, street-playing children like one-woman puppy mills).

And then I told her that it was really nice to meet her and suggested that perhaps I'm not the one who has a problem being friendly (I may have allowed the venom to creep into my tone of voice at this point). Because seriously, if she's such a good neighbor, where was the welcome wagon visit when we moved into base housing back at the end of June? Heck, not one person on the entire street even bothered to come say hello when we first got here.

So THAT is why I'm not going out of my way to make friends with the people here: because they're cuh-RAZY bitches who think that instead of them going outside and supervising their kids' playtime, I should just stop driving in the afternoon. (Note: I know they're not all like this. I have met three other wives on our street and they've all been nice.)

Jason thinks that this woman is mental and way too worried about what we are and aren't doing. Like, heaven forbid that a Navy wife have a vocation other than breeding. He said she's probably jealous that we're free to go out whenever we like and that we have a nice car. Sorry for her bad luck, but here's a newsflash: not having children is fairly simple--on our military health plan, birth control pills are free.

I've had it with these Navy people and talking about kids. From now on, our new policy is that if people ask why we don't have kids, we'll simply say that I can't. End of discussion, problem solved.

9 comments:

Brittany Ann said...

Oh my! I HATE people like this! (I'll be honest. This scares me a little when we move onto Navy base housing in June. I've heard other stories like this...)

Bev said...

What a total biznatch! Sorry you had to deal with that. UGH! You handled it much better than I would have, I'm sure....

The Oesch Chronicles said...

What a crazy woman! We have people in our neighborhood around here putting out signs that says SPEED KILLS... slow down!! I mean come on seriously.. If you are that concerned about speeders than get out there and watch your kids! And that is horrible about her mentioning how you never come out of your house! Hell that would be crazy around here. We have a neighbor across the street that we have never seen except in a car in the morning! Everyone is different.

Samsmama said...

Next time you're asked why you don't have kids, I'd say that you had a few but accidentally ran them over.

Jamie said...

What Samsmama said. Giving people ridiculous answers that confuse their tiny brains is the only way I get through my work day.

K13 said...

holy moly - she sounds like a wack job for sure. What a nut!!

JW.BW said...

U should have run her over, going 35... Hee hee puppy mill, I love it!!! You think Navy wives are crappy to you?? You should see how they treat female sailors!! I have been treated pretty crappy by tons of them. Dont let her bother you, just like you said, she has little else to worry about before her kids start spending time in Juvy and stuff.

Kris said...

WOW You handled that way better than I would have. The base police would have probably been called when I slapped that (bleep)! As a prior service member and a military wife; there’s a reason we’ve never lived on base – I can’t deal with the wives. I have one child and I get “when are you having more” all the time. None of your damn business, that’s when… I’ve also had problems with some of the wives because I work but that’s a whole different subject.

Don’t let her get to you and keep an open mind about other military wives (we’re not all crazy)

The Steffens said...

hahahhahaha a one-woman puppy mill! This may be my favorite post ever. Sorry that they're so crazy though, that's got to be tough.

God forbid you have a job. That's just crazy talk!