It's the first of December, and you know what that means.
Yes, it means that you only have 24 shopping 
days left until Christmas (I only have two people left to buy gifts for, suckahs!).
Yes, it means that it's 
World AIDS Day (use a condom, people).

It also mean
s that it's time to look back on the year behind us--and what better way is there to do that than 
The Best of 2009 Blog Challenge? (That was a rhetorical question, so don't answer it.)
Here's how it works: there's a writing prompt in question form for each day of December. For example, today's question is: 
What was your best trip in 2009? And so forth for the next 30 days--the list of prompts is 
here (there's also a list of participants on that page--I'm number 240, so seriously, all the cool bloggers are doing it). Easy, yes?
Well, maybe not. I am by no means promising that I'll blog every day or that I'll write about the prompt question if I do blog. I can 
commit to a man, but I sure as hell 
can't commit to blogging every day. Nor can I be counted on to 
summarize my year properly. Regardless, mad props to 
Gwen Bell for adding a little bit of organization to these here intertubes.
On to today's topic: my best trip in 2009. I've done a bit of travel this year. Most recently to Virginia 
for work, to 
Oakland for work, and to Los Angeles 
a few times, definitely 
not for work. And I'll be going home to Michigan two weeks from today (side note: 
SQUEEEEEEEEEEE!).
But the best trip of all this year was by far when I drove 3,100 miles from Massachusetts to California with a car full of disgruntled cats. (In case you missed it: 
part the first, 
part the second, and 
part the third.) And I don't mean "best" in an ironic or sarcastic sense at all. Leaving Massachusetts and knowing that I'll never have to live there 
ever again made the unpleasant parts of the journey fade into the background. California was my light at the end of the 
tunnel highway, and blasting across the Massachusetts/New York border 
throwing a one-fingered salute was better for my mental health than a bottle of Zoloft.
The move (and the 
Navy reenlistment that prompted it) was also an integral part of reclaiming our lives, which seemed to be stagnating in the morass that is Massachusetts and its accompanying 
familial entanglements. (Hehe, I said 
morass!) It was tough at times, like when Jason had to 
leave me in Massachusetts (for we didn't know how long) when he reported to his temporary personnel unit in Illinois. He certainly 
had it worse than I did. We ended up only being apart for two months, but that separation made joining him in California even sweeter, despite our less-than-ideal 
temporary accomodations and sleeping on the floor for two weeks while 
waiting for our moving truck to arrive.
I never thought I would drive cross-country, let alone with no other company than my cats. I feel grateful to have had my situation necessitate it. Making the trip was rewarding in that it taught me that I 
can handle that kind of stress. When Jason first reenlisted, I told him I wanted us to be sent anywhere but California because I knew that I would have to drive the cats to wherever we ended up, and I didn't think I could do it on my own. Now I 
know that I can!
This trip got me out of a negative place (literally and figuratively), boosted my self-confidence, and reunited me with my husband. It doesn't get much better than that!